"Why take it to heart?"

"Why are you depressed?"

"I lost in trading today!"

"to whom?"

"Must be someone!"

"Who?"

"Some other trader I don't know....!"

"How would he be feeling now?"

"He must be celebrating and feeling good!"

"When YOU celebrate, who feels bad?"

"Someone!"

"Who?"

"Some other trader I don't know...!"

"Why take it to heart when you play with fire!!"