Monday, December 27, 2010

why u trade decides what u get!

why are you into stock trading?

obviously, for money

but what seems obvious

is not so obvious at the root!

at the root

the reason for coming to stock market may be

- to recover lost money

- to earn some extra bucks

- in search of financial security

- to overcome the poverty

- to gain wealth

- to "prove yourself"

....or any other reason!

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- if you took to trading to recover lost money, you have brought with you fear and frustration of having been the 'victim of loss'! your subconscious will find ways to prove that you were 'a
victim'! and what better way to prove this than showing you as a victim again! nothing can really happen till you come out of that psyche and trade not to recover, but gain normally!

- if you have come here for that "side income" for "extra bucks", you have reached here with a
baggage of realisation that "it is difficul to making money". your obedient sub-conscious will try its best to defend your belief that it is really "difficult to make monay"! consequently, i won't be surprised if you face so much of difficulty that you don't gain but lose "extra"!

- if you have taken to trading in search of relief from financial insecurity, your psyche is full of fear of insecurity! whatever you earn in stock market, you are unlikely to get that "secure" feeling! your discomfort might increase actually increase! from the insecurity of less money from the insecurity of too much money! the only way left to get security would be to lose this "too much money" and get some relief!

- if you have become a stock trader because you want to come out of years of poverty or financial distress that you and your parents have had to go through, then you have started with an anger against lack of money! whatever money you make in the stock market, is likely to make you remind this anger! rather, the more money you make the more the anger will be there, courtesy that fear of losing it all again. finally, in bouts of psychological stress, your subconscios is likely to land you in losing trades that somewhat relieve you from the pressure!

- if you have started trading to become wealthy you are carrying a strong belief and grudge that
wealth has been eluding you and it is not your fault! your sub-conscious will prove that your
belief is justified. and it is likely to prove this by showing that wealth is still "eluding you"! i am sorry to say that the grudge and belief are here to stay till you nourish them!

- if you are here "to prove" yourself, then i have no hesitation to say that whatever be your
performance you will always have the feeling that you have not "proved yourself enough". this
belief is likely to wrongly influence your decisions which will result in loss that will justify
that "you indeed have to prove yourself!"

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why do i say all that?

less so because i have experienced one of this myself!

less so because i have seen many around me go thru some of these states!

but more so

because

our minds work that way!

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whatever is your reality paradigm

whatever is your frame of reference

whatever you think

your subconscious will be out to prove it!

and attract it!!

everything which tallies with your belief world is accepted

everything else is ignored

your subconscious proves what you believe!!!

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so, what if you have entered the dalaal street with the above reasons?

do you still have hope?

yes!

absolutely!!

but there is a condition!

you have to approach the market with a positive approach!

with a positive reason!

with a positive psyche.

without any negative baggage!

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remember, if the motive or driving force behind

your taking up trading is

negative

your fate is sealed even before you start!

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instead

whatever your past

make sure that you are in the market for positive reasons

of aim or ambition or passion or happiness

with darkness behind your back

and your face brightly lit with sunshine!

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